Loving Your Child Through Their Addiction
Break through Worry. Grieve while Healing. Walk into Greater Peace and Love.
Being a parent of a child struggling with substance use is one of the hardest things you might ever experience. The grief, worry, not knowing what do or how they are, guilt, anger, so many big emotions can be suffocating. So please don't muddle through it alone or without enough support. No one can do this alone, and you are not alone.
There's a name for grieving a child who is alive but not available physically or mentally. It's called Ambiguous Grief, and it includes guilt, worry, anger, profound sadness, maybe some shame, stigma, isolation, and more. I don't have to tell you it's painful. More importantly, though, is to know how to restore your peace, to be imperfect, and to empower yourself by learning and practicing essential skills to love your child through their addiction, and love yourself too.
You're invited to be part of a larger family, a community of other parents who get it, and hold each other in love and support, in healing, and creating change.
Love wins here!
A FREE GUIDE FOR PARENTS OF CHILDREN WHO STRUGGLE WITH ADDICTION
Worry Less, Help Your Child More
Grab this FREE guide "How To Find Peace When You Worry" and get 3 Powerful Ways to:
- Shift out of fear so you can stop imagining the worst, get back to sleep, resume your activities, and love your child with a restored sense of peace.
- Relieve your worry so you can move forward with more clarity in order to identify the choices that feel right for you as you help your child.
- Become more present in your life and relationships so that you can be ok when things are not ok, and create conditions that inspire change.
Things can change with the right tools. Let's create some healing and change today!
Love Wins Here!
Sign up to receive inspiration and updates that can support your own healing, skill-building, and to empower your precious love. Together, we can find our light and shine it into the dark times of addiction. Something we all really need. Let's create some brighter days and possibilities for ourselves and our families!
Because your child struggles with substance use, you have a choice to use it for purpose. Make no mistake about it, you have power. You need to know how to use it. You and the way you think, the way you live your life, how you approach your child and the hard stuff, these things are the change makers.
It only takes one person to create change.
You Are That One
Let's walk this journey together. We can find peace and healing within and beyond addiction.
"All human life has its seasons and cycles, and no one's personal chaos can be permanent. Winter, after all, gives way to spring and summer, though sometimes when branches stay dark and the earth cracks with ice, one thinks they will never come, that spring, and that summer, but they do, and always." ~ Truman Capote
Love Shows Up Here
A FREEBIE guide to reconnect you with your greatest purpose - to be love. Here's a path.
Letter From a Child
A FREEBIE gift and inspiring letter of truth and guidance from child to parent.
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What people are saying...
I have been an Alanoner for a long time but have to say Joanne's class has added so much to my life, I can barely explain it. It brought all those years of meetings, counseling, etc. together. Thanks Joanne again. ~ E
It’s like coming out of the darkness and into the light. It’s changing all my relationships. ~ L
It’s really helping me to connect with my son, see how beautiful he is, and relieve my worrying. I'm not as angry anymore, I'm accepting him more, and feel less tension between us. Thank you Joanne! ~ R
Thank you Joanne. You have helped me so much to question my thoughts and beliefs. I have been living in such a hopeless dark place and doing this work with you has helped me re-think everything. ~ M
You helped me learn how to communicate with my son and I’m forever grateful. He has been in recovery and is living on his own & working. I’m still working on my own self and our relationship is better than ever. The bonus is he calls me almost every day, love wins!!!!
~ P
It was your group and your words that taught me how to love my child through her addiction. Your words helped me help her realize her strength and worth. I thank you every day for her life and mine. I hope for peace for your family.
~ B
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A Healing Path
Come into this place
Come in. Come into this place which we make holy by our presence.
Come in with all your vulnerabilities and strengths, fears, and anxieties, loves, and hopes. For here you need not hide, nor pretend, nor be anything other than who you are and are called to be.
Come into this place where we can touch and be touched, heal and be healed, forgive, and be forgiven.
Come into this place, where the ordinary is sanctified, the human is celebrated, the compassionate is expected.
Come into this place. Together we make it a holy place.
~ Rebecca Edmiston-Lange
Saying No, with Love
Saying no to anyone can sometimes be hard. Saying no when the demands and chance of argument are real, makes it even harder. Along with mental health and addiction concerns, it's easy to find yourself saying yes just to avoid more pressure and difficulty, but it's also easy to blame yourself and possibly your child because of it. And so the cycle of confusion and conflict continues. Urgh! In this course, you will identify what you truly value, your priorities, why you say yes when you want to say no, how to find your truest answer, and how to be more confident communicating it without guilt, and instead with clarity and kindness, showing up in a calm and peaceful way that works for you. If it works for you, it can transfer to your child.
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The Empowered Mom
If you're interested in saving your sanity, turning worry and fear into peace and confidence, read on. Turn confusion into loving with skills. This is doing what is possible, doing what you can as you empower your love, and save the relationship with your child. The Empowered Mom 1:1 Coaching Program is a highly supportive, one-stop, compassionate place for moms to care for mind, body, and spirit including small group support and additional workshops to enhance learning and practicing concepts and skills to more confidently love your child through their struggles with substance use.
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The Invitation To Change
This group is for parents who are concerned about a child (or children) who is struggling with substance use. Whether you are new at this or have been watching your child struggle for years, this group can help. By joining this group, you are taking a proactive step. If you've been told to detach or let your child hit rock bottom, and that doesn't feel right, this group is for you. Practicing compassion, kindness, and staying close will benefit you and your child. These are the core principles of our group. This program has a proven track record of helping many parents. Parents can influence and help their children change. There is HOPE
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